When I tell others that I have been through four divorces, they surely feel for me, ask me what has gone wrong, and I must have issues attracting the wrong bride. Then I mention that I have never been married, but a child of divorce that truly holds marriage sacred. It’s a union of two families, a common vision of togetherness, love, willingness, and the ability to grow with strength, patience, and understanding. I haven’t been married yet due to my experiences through the years of being witness of failing ones and beautiful ones. I think most of us just want to embrace marriage once and live a wonderful life full of discovery and amazement with those that we adore and inspire to be old with. The true intention of getting married has to be genuine too. So many people surrender to the sacrament for so many wrong reasons; children, culture, citizenship, impatience, financial, family pressure. Some are bound for life and never feel that marriage is for them, but they raise children, build a fortune, and lead a fortunate breezy day filled with harmonious happiness that we all can admire. HUSBAND AND WIFE, till death do us part, through thick and thin, dumps & downs, smiles and frowns. What is your view on relationships? Common Law? Church? Down on a Knee? Walking down the Aisle? Weddings? Engagements? Guest Lists? Does it feel right? Can you make it right? Should you work on a marriage or should the marriage just work? What does it take to maintain, sustain, and not go insane forever and ever…? Amen.
Marriage was an institution created by the creator based in the love he has for us, a gift to procreate to have companionship and to find a sacrificial heart in one another in unity and ultimately Love nd compassion.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately we humans have twisted the idea of togetherness with selfish attitude, specially with the feminist revolution of women seeking equality and competition towards the male counter parts. Then is when all the so called marriage vision took a 360° turn. Women wanted to work, have careers, independence, freedom to chose, and left males confused as if we're not longer needed.
By nature man were designed to serve his family with security, and a sense of belonging while women were the nurturing human to fill the home with peace compassion, and be submissive to the needs of the family.
Going deeper in the subject the meaning of submission also got distorted and became a word that meanted control.
Now the intented marriage union as you see have swap roles, women wanted the men role and with that came caos.
People were getting married and the working couple's had little time to build their families, children born were left behind neglected and lacking the parents nurturing and life just got to busy and complicated to stay focus in family matters.
This type of marriage evolution has been around for decades now and seems as if generations have accepted the fact that is ok to divorce your partner because some how they have experience this themselves. We have become insensitive for the meaning of love relationships.
I myself feel that humanity have corrupted the covenant created and we are too deep to be restored. Although I believe that as humans we still have the choice to surrender to a committed marriage, knowing that as humans we are going to be tested and is up to us to continue the learning curve and surrender while we live in Earth because our true purpose is to be aligned to who we are in the core with creation.
When I was a child at the age of 6 years old all I wanted as a grown up is to have a family I guess im my culture we weren't influenced by a Divorce culture and I think people did tried harder to stay together.
When I came to América, I discovered that marriage wasn't valued the same way, but I think I dint want to believe that.
I must say that I do too have experience to be left out and divorced, but my inner child still believes in the true purpose and meaning of a loving relationship based in respect, compassion love and joy to discover the world in true union, as is supposed to be,to complete the life purpose circle here in earth.
Will this be only my desire and if is aligned with source? I am already grateful to receive it.
Mercedes
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ReplyDeleteI believe that if I made the decision to be married is my responsibility as a human to make sure that my partner is honored with love and support.
ReplyDeleteRequires a selfless attitude and the curiosity of a child to learn the true meaning of unconditional love. Love is the alpha and the omega.