FOUNDATIONAL GLUE: DAY ONE HUNDRED TWO WHAT IS YOUR PURPOSE?

The are some musts in my mind in order for a relationship to be hopeful and worthy enough for my attention. From my mind to yours I truly desire creativity, curiosity, desire, sensuality, passion, drive, uniqueness, ask questions, have a voice, willing to listen & learn, strive for excellence, walk with style, believe in oneself, dedication to a cause, quality diet, exercise in someway, desire to explore&discover, cherish simplicity, and have a genuine smile with laughter. These of course are just some of the many attributes through my mind and soul that creates goodness and gives me faith to pursue someone special. What wows you in ways that open your senses to desire more from someone? I encounteedr a friend years ago who told me she went on 15 dates in a month and walks the planet with a list/agenda of what she wants in a man. At first I was sluggish to listen since having agendas and MUSTs set yourself for failure no? But she was someone I respect and she started to mention that she wants someone that IS NOT RACIST. That struck a cord in me and made complete sense and she continued and mentioned other things she deserved to have in a man. I think there are so many people out there that are constantly burned, take things way too personally, and surround themselves with needy, ME ME ME and self-intended individuals that will do anything to soothe their insecurities/fears by disrespecting and hurting others. Think about your style, approach, and how you meet others. Is there a pattern of the types of people attract? Do you enjoy this pattern? What are you going to do to give yourself hope in creating the desired type of foundational glue that is going to bind you to someone in a soothing, satisfying, and sensational way. It is a true struggle to discover that fulfilling soul, especially for the ladies out there. NO DOUBT. Stay true to your hearts, be good to your soul, and don't sell yourself up the river, meaning DON'T risk the sake of your children, your safety, and your guiding morals just to pay next months rent, or get fashions new wardrobe. There are wholesome wonderful people out there that are loving, ambitious, and willing to provide an unforgettable living environment and relationship that you can be proud to call your own. A relationship that has room to grow, gives you the hope that feeds into happiness, and prosperous living. Understand what you desire while planting trees and trees of growing sweetness that can be felt and feed you for a lifetime. RVB