Sunday, May 27, 2012

SHARE YOUR CONCERNS: DAY ONE HUNDRED TWENTY THREE WHAT IS YOUR PURPOSE?

If you have some thoughts on your mind that you desire to share  do your best to voice them, write them down, or kindly ask for help with them with how to engage in your thoughts possibilities. There are so many times we hold back, don't face our fears, assume, past judgment, and truly don't speak up about what we believe or feel. Of course people will say men are so weak with expressing the truth and lack elaboration skills. From my experience and my personal lacking, that is probably true. I struggle speaking up, making those difficult phone calls, looking someone in the eye to give them a piece of my mind. I am one not to hurt others, so I avoid, but I know the truth is always the best, even though it might be something that someone doesn't want to hear. And for those that are reading this and judging my expression here, and nit picking every word, FINE, but I am aware of my faults, don't always approve of them, and have the willingness and desire to improve and communicate more completely. I think quality listening is a beautiful gift. Being patient and understanding with positive selfless advice goes a long way for those that want it. When showing concern for others ask them first if they want advice, how can I help, what can I do....If you are dealing with an unwanted/restricted vessel then there is no room or hope for you to be there pushing and prying, judging and manipulating. It will only cause more strife, pain, and possibly bring you down to the their situation. Go where you are asked to be. Understand what NO means. Don't take anything personally. Proactively restrict and know your intentions. Be Kind and Rewind People- RVB

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